Me Too

Please tell me how I can sleep at peace every night knowing that rape culture still exists and it doesn’t show any signs of stopping. You go to sleep every night hoping that everything will get better the next day but no. That’s not what happens. You wake up and:

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Does Perfect Wedding Exist?

I used to believe in the existence of the so-called perfect wedding. My belief system changed when I had my wedding back in October 2016. The preparation itself was smooth but on the actual wedding day? It did not turn out as I hoped it would be. First, our officiant was late so we had to cut things short. Second, I fell sick that I had to miss the after party. No first dance, no family pictures, no couple photos. On a scale of 1 to 10, I would give it a 7.5. It wasn’t a disaster but, you know, it’s not perfect. The next few months were filled with anguish and disappointment. I couldn’t accept the fact that my wedding didn’t run as planned. Shoulda woulda coulda.

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2016 In Retrospect

So this is a tad late but Happy 2017 frandsss!! Brand new year, new look, and new spirit! Resolutions, goals, plans…some of us may have everything written down. Whilst I’m a fan of having everything planned ahead of time, I also like the idea of letting things take their course and be on their own flows. 2016 had its ups and downs but I’m grateful regardless. I survived 2016 and that’s all what matters! (lol)

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Friday Entertainment: Must Reads, Movies and More!


It’s time for some weekend treats!

Last week I wrote my first Friday Reads post, click here to see what it’s all about. I realized not everyone is as much of a bookworm as me so from now on I’ll do Friday Entertainment series instead! I will keep on posting books and readings recommendations but I’ll also include some other fun stuff for ya 🙂

So go get your favorite drink and check out these fellas…


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Where Have I Been?

Woah. It’s been way too long! I feel terrible for breaking my own promise to not neglect this blog. Though no amount of excuses can make up for my action, I have some explanations to make.

I should just start by saying that in this year, life got me into a reflective mode a lot. I’m an introverted so it seems like being in this mode is a natural fit for me. Those around me know that I love spending countless uninterrupted hours alone at my bedroom.

This year is different though.

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